Ways to keep your man’s penis rock-hard – Help him stand up proud. We all know that having sex should be a joyful, fun, and energetic release for both men and women. But for some men, especially as they age, the fun is zapped from the equation because they are worried about their penis.
Don’t get it twisted, a man is ALWAYS thinking about his penis.
But as he ages and erections don’t come the way they used to, sex can become less about intimacy and more about proving that his penis can still get hard.
When a man’s penis won’t stay hard it can be awkward for both parties.
The man is embarrassed and can be feel emasculated, and the woman can worry that losing his erection means he doesn’t her attractive.
These aren’t valid fears, but when you’re naked, logic usually doesn’t factor into your emotional reactions.
If your man is getting older and he loses his erection on the regular, that doesn’t mean your sex life is over — or that it has to be controlled by Viagra.
There are physiological and psychology reasons your man’s penis isn’t staying hard the way it used to.
Here are three ways to help his penis stay hard, so you two can get seriously sexy together (and not worry so much!).
1. Try a new sex position
The penis is a creature that is easily bored by the rut of routine.
Let’s say that you and your guy have a hot groove going on when it comes to your sex lives.
You get freaky regularly, and, because you know what turns each other on, your sex sessions all look pretty identical.
Hot, but identical.
Even the sexiest routine can turn into a rut over time.
If he is having a hard time keeping his penis hard during sex, it could be a fix as simple as changing what the two of your are doing in bed.
New sex positions can stoke the imagination and keep his penis hard, by keeping his penis more “in the action” than it has been before.
So if you usually stick to stuff like missionary, or if you always have sex in bed, why not spice things up and work in a new sex position like reverse cowgirl with you on top?
Like I said, even just moving locations, say, from the bedroom to that super soft rug in the living room can be all the erotic enticement he needs to make his penis stand to attention once more!